Active learning ideas
Conflict is a natural part of social interaction, especially in a busy Junior Infant classroom. This topic, part of the 'Resolving conflict' strand, teaches children how to handle disagreements constructively. The focus is on using 'I statements,' understanding the impact of their actions on others, and the power of a sincere apology.
Activity 01
The teacher provides a scenario (e.g., someone took my crayon). Children practice saying: 'I feel sad when you take my crayon. Please ask next time.' Pairs take turns being the speaker and the listener.
What should we do if we argue with a friend?
Activity 02
Small groups look at pictures of 'broken' friendships (e.g., an argument over a toy). They choose a 'tool' from a kit (a hug, a sorry, a handshake, a turn-taking timer) to fix the problem.
How do we say sorry and mean it?
Activity 03
Children discuss with a partner what makes a 'good' apology versus a 'fast' apology. They share their ideas with the class to create a 'Sincere Sorry' checklist.
How does it feel when we make up after a fight?
A few notes on teaching this unit
Watch Out for These Misconceptions
Children often think that saying the word 'sorry' automatically fixes everything instantly.
Teach that a 'sorry' needs to be followed by a 'fix-it' action. Use role-play to show how to ask, 'How can I make it better?' which helps children see the importance of restoring the relationship.
Students may believe that if they are angry, they are 'bad.'
Distinguish between the feeling (anger) and the action (hitting). Active learning through 'The Fix-It Kit' shows that there are many positive ways to handle the feeling of anger.
Methods used in this brief
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