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Making Friends

Making friends is a fundamental social skill that Junior Infants practice daily. Under the 'Relating to others' strand, children learn the mechanics of friendship: how to ask to join a game, how to share resources, and how to use kind words. This unit helps transition children from parallel play to more collaborative interactions.

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsStrand: Myself and others - Strand Unit: Relating to othersStrand: Myself and others - Strand Unit: Making decisions
15–25 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Simulation Game15 min · Pairs

Simulation Game: The 'Can I Play?' Practice

In pairs, children practice the specific words and body language needed to join a group. One child is playing with blocks, and the other practices asking to join politely.

How do we make a new friend?
ApplyAnalyzeEvaluateCreateSocial AwarenessDecision-Making
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Activity 02

Inquiry Circle20 min · Small Groups

Inquiry Circle: The Friendship Recipe

In small groups, children choose 'ingredients' for a good friend (e.g., kindness, sharing, listening) from a set of picture cards and 'mix' them into a paper bowl.

What does a good friend do?
AnalyzeEvaluateCreateSelf-ManagementSelf-Awareness
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Activity 03

Stations Rotation25 min · Small Groups

Stations Rotation: Taking Turns Games

Set up simple games (like a 2-player puzzle or a ball toss) where taking turns is mandatory. A 'friendship observer' at each station gives a thumbs-up when they see good turn-taking.

How can we share our toys and take turns?
RememberUnderstandApplyAnalyzeSelf-ManagementRelationship Skills
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • Children often think that a 'best friend' means they can't play with anyone else.

    Use role-play to show how a group can grow. Practice 'including' a third person into a two-person game to show that friendship isn't a limited resource.

  • Students might believe that being a friend means always getting your own way.

    Through turn-taking simulations, children experience the 'give and take' of friendship. Peer discussion helps them realize that making a friend happy makes the game more fun for everyone.


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