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Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 3rd Year

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Resolving Conflict and Anti-Bullying

Conflict resolution and anti-bullying are essential life skills that require clear definitions and practical strategies. In 3rd Year, the SPHE curriculum emphasizes the distinction between a 'normal disagreement' (which is occasional and equal) and 'bullying' (which is repetitive and involves an imbalance of power). This topic aligns with the 'Relating to others' and 'Safety and Protection' strands.

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsMyself and others: Relating to othersMyself: Safety and protection - Personal safety
25–45 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Mock Trial45 min · Small Groups

Mock Trial: Disagreement vs. Bullying

The class is presented with several 'cases'. Small groups act as a jury to decide if the scenario is a one-off conflict or a pattern of bullying, citing evidence for their choice.

What is the difference between a disagreement and bullying?
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Activity 02

Role Play25 min · Pairs

Role Play: The Power of 'I-Statements'

Pairs practice turning 'You-statements' (e.g., 'You're being mean!') into 'I-statements' (e.g., 'I feel sad when you don't let me play').

How can I use my words to solve a problem?
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Activity 03

Simulation Game35 min · Small Groups

Simulation Game: The Upstander Training

Students are given a scenario where someone is being excluded. They must brainstorm and then act out three safe ways to support the person being left out.

What should I do if I see someone being bullied?
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • Telling a teacher is 'snitching' or 'tattling'.

    Distinguish between 'tattling' (to get someone in trouble) and 'reporting' (to get someone out of trouble). A mock trial can help clarify the ethical importance of reporting for safety.

  • Bullying is only physical hitting.

    Teach about verbal, social, and cyberbullying. Using a 'Gallery Walk' of different scenarios helps students recognize that excluding someone or spreading rumors is also bullying.


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