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Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 4th Class

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Making Decisions and Peer Influence

As 4th Class students grow more independent, they face more complex choices and increasing peer influence. This topic focuses on the decision-making process: identifying the problem, considering the options, weighing the consequences, and making a choice. It aligns with the NCCA SPHE strands 'Growing and changing' and 'Relating to others.'

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsSPHE: Myself - Growing and changing (As I grow I change)SPHE: Myself and others - Relating to others (Communicating)
30–40 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Role Play35 min · Pairs

Role Play: The 'No' Sandwich

Students practice a three-part technique for saying no: a positive comment, the 'no' itself, and a different suggestion (e.g., 'You're a great friend, but I don't want to skip class. Let's go to the park after school instead').

How do I make a good decision?
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Activity 02

Inquiry Circle40 min · Small Groups

Inquiry Circle: The Decision Tree

Groups are given a dilemma (e.g., finding a lost €5 note). They must draw a 'tree' showing three different choices and the possible 'branches' of consequences for each, presenting the most responsible path to the class.

What is peer pressure and how does it feel?
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Activity 03

Formal Debate30 min · Whole Class

Formal Debate: Is All Influence Bad?

The class debates the statement: 'Friends always know what's best for you.' This allows students to explore the nuances of positive peer influence versus negative peer pressure in a safe, structured way.

How can I say no to something I don't want to do?
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • Peer pressure is always someone being mean or aggressive.

    Students often think pressure is 'bullying.' Active learning scenarios help them see that 'subtle' pressure, like 'everyone else is doing it,' is often harder to resist and requires different skills to manage.

  • There is always one 'right' answer to every problem.

    Children can struggle with ambiguity. Through the 'Decision Tree' activity, they learn that many situations have multiple options, and the goal is to choose the one that aligns best with their values and safety.


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