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Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 3rd Class

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Roles and Responsibilities in the Family

In 3rd Class, students begin to look more deeply at the family unit, recognizing that families come in many different forms in modern Ireland. The NCCA curriculum encourages children to explore the roles and responsibilities within their own families and to appreciate the diversity of family structures in their classroom. This fosters a sense of belonging and mutual respect.

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsStrand: Myself and others, Strand Unit: Myself and my familyStrand: Myself and others, Strand Unit: Roles and responsibilities
15–40 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Inquiry Circle40 min · Small Groups

Inquiry Circle: The Responsibility Web

In small groups, students list all the jobs that need to be done in a home (cooking, cleaning, earning money, caring). They use yarn to connect these jobs to different family members, showing how everyone's roles are interconnected and support the whole family.

What makes a family special?
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Activity 02

Think-Pair-Share15 min · Pairs

Think-Pair-Share: Family Traditions

Students think of one thing their family does together that is special (e.g., Sunday dinner, a specific holiday tradition, or a walk in the park). They share this with a partner and discuss how these traditions help family members feel connected.

What are my roles and responsibilities at home?
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Activity 03

Role Play30 min · Pairs

Role Play: Helpful Contributions

Pairs act out a scenario where a family member is busy or tired. One student plays the 'helper' and demonstrates a specific way they can take responsibility (like setting the table without being asked) and how that changes the mood in the house.

How can family members support and care for each other?
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • A 'real' family must look a certain way (e.g., two parents and children).

    Teach that a family is defined by care and commitment, not just structure. Use diverse stories and examples to show that single-parent families, foster families, and multi-generational families are all equally valid and 'real'.

  • Children don't have 'real' responsibilities in a family.

    Explain that contributing to the household is a way of showing care. Active brainstorming of age-appropriate chores helps students see that their help is valuable and necessary for the family to function smoothly.


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