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Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 3rd Class

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Making and Keeping Friends

Friendship in 3rd Class becomes more complex as social circles shift and the need for peer acceptance grows. The NCCA curriculum focuses on identifying the qualities of a good friend, such as loyalty, honesty, and kindness, and practicing the skills needed to maintain these bonds. Students explore the concept of inclusion, learning how to welcome others and recognize the impact of 'leaving people out.'

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsStrand: Myself and others, Strand Unit: My friends and other peopleStrand: Myself and others, Strand Unit: Relating to others
15–40 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Gallery Walk40 min · Small Groups

Gallery Walk: The Recipe for Friendship

In small groups, students create a 'Recipe for a Good Friend,' listing ingredients like '2 cups of kindness' or 'a dash of humor.' They display their recipes and move around the room to vote on the most important 'ingredient' using stickers.

What makes someone a good friend?
UnderstandApplyAnalyzeCreateRelationship SkillsSocial Awareness
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Activity 02

Think-Pair-Share15 min · Pairs

Think-Pair-Share: Including Others

Students are given a scenario: 'You see someone standing alone at break time.' They think of three different ways to invite that person to join in, then share their ideas with a partner to choose the most welcoming approach.

How can we make sure everyone feels included?
UnderstandApplyAnalyzeSelf-AwarenessRelationship Skills
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Activity 03

Simulation Game30 min · Small Groups

Simulation Game: The Empathy Glasses

Students take turns wearing 'imaginary glasses' that let them see a situation from a friend's perspective. They are given a conflict (e.g., a broken toy) and must describe how the *other* person is feeling and why, before suggesting a way to help.

How do our actions affect our friends' feelings?
ApplyAnalyzeEvaluateCreateSocial AwarenessDecision-Making
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • You have to be friends with everyone in the class.

    Teach that while you don't have to be 'best friends' with everyone, you must be *friendly* and respectful to everyone. Active discussion about the difference between 'friendship' and 'friendly behavior' helps clarify classroom expectations.

  • Being a good friend means always agreeing with them.

    Explain that true friends can disagree respectfully. Use role plays to practice how to say 'no' or express a different opinion to a friend without being unkind or ending the friendship.


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