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Understanding Our Feelings
Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 2nd Class · Myself: Self-Identity and Growth · 1.º Período

Understanding Our Feelings

Children learn to name, express, and cope with a variety of emotions in a healthy and safe way.

TL;DR:Developing emotional literacy is a core component of the SPHE curriculum for 2nd Class. At this age, children experience a wide range of emotions but may lack the vocabulary or strategies to manage them effectively. This topic teaches students to recognize the physical signs of emotions, such as a racing heart or a 'butterfly' feeling in the stomach, and provides them with a toolkit for expressing these feelings safely and respectfully.

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsStrand: MyselfStrand Unit: Self-identity (Developing self-confidence)

About This Topic

Developing emotional literacy is a core component of the SPHE curriculum for 2nd Class. At this age, children experience a wide range of emotions but may lack the vocabulary or strategies to manage them effectively. This topic teaches students to recognize the physical signs of emotions, such as a racing heart or a 'butterfly' feeling in the stomach, and provides them with a toolkit for expressing these feelings safely and respectfully.

By normalizing all emotions, including anger and sadness, the curriculum helps reduce the stigma around mental health from an early age. Students learn that while all feelings are okay, not all behaviors are acceptable. This topic benefits significantly from role play and simulation, as these methods allow students to practice emotional regulation in a safe, low-stakes environment before they face real-life conflicts.

Key Questions

  1. How do different feelings look and feel?
  2. How can I express my feelings safely?
  3. What can I do when I feel sad or angry?

Watch Out for These Misconceptions

Common MisconceptionSome feelings, like anger, are 'bad' feelings.

What to Teach Instead

Children often think they shouldn't feel angry. Use role play to show that anger is a natural signal that something feels unfair, and the focus should be on how we handle the anger rather than stopping the feeling itself.

Common MisconceptionPeople can tell how I feel without me saying anything.

What to Teach Instead

Young children often assume their internal state is obvious to others. Structured peer discussions help them realize that they need to use words to explain their feelings to friends and adults.

Active Learning Ideas

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best way to handle a child who becomes overwhelmed during these lessons?
Always provide an 'opt-out' or a quiet space. Emotional work can be intense. Use grounding activities like '5-4-3-2-1' senses checks to bring the focus back to the physical room. Ensure the classroom environment is one of safety where students know they don't have to share personal stories if they don't want to.
How can I teach the difference between a feeling and an action?
Use a 'Stoplight' visual. Red is the feeling (Stop and notice it), Yellow is the thought (Think about what to do), and Green is the action (Choose a safe way to act). Role playing this sequence helps children internalize the pause between feeling and reacting.
How do active learning strategies improve emotional intelligence?
Active strategies like 'Emotion Statues' or role plays allow students to physically embody and observe emotions. This kinesthetic approach helps them recognize non-verbal cues in others, which is a key part of empathy. By practicing 'calm down' stations, they move from knowing about strategies to having muscle memory of how to use them.
Should I involve the school counselor in these SPHE lessons?
While not always necessary, it can be helpful to align your language with the counselor's. If the school uses a specific program like 'Zippy's Friends' or 'Weaving Well-being,' use that terminology to provide consistency for the children across all school interactions.
Edited by Adriana Perusin, Editor-in-Chief, Flip Education