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Repairing Harm, Not Just Punishing

Active learning brings restorative justice to life for young learners by letting them practice repair instead of just hearing about it. Role-plays and circles let students feel the difference between punishment and making amends, which builds deeper understanding than lectures alone.

MOE Syllabus OutcomesMOE: Ethical Reasoning - P3MOE: Restorative Justice - P3
25–40 minPairs → Whole Class4 activities

Activity 01

Think-Pair-Share30 min · Pairs

Role-Play: Conflict Repair Scenarios

Present three short scenarios of playground disputes. In pairs, students act out the conflict, then switch to a restorative response with apology and amends. Debrief as a class on what worked best.

What is the difference between punishing someone for doing something wrong and helping them fix what they did?

Facilitation TipDuring Peer Mediation Stations: Rotation, circulate with a checklist to note which students need extra modeling for calm, clear communication.

What to look forPresent a scenario: 'Sarah accidentally broke Tom's favorite toy during playtime. What are two ways Sarah could repair the harm she caused, and why might these actions be better than just being sent to sit alone?'

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Activity 02

Think-Pair-Share35 min · Whole Class

Restorative Circles: Class Discussion

Form a circle for a shared story of harm, like damaging a shared book. Students take turns sharing feelings and suggesting repair steps, such as group cleanup or replacement fund. Record agreements on chart paper.

How might saying sorry and making things right be better than just getting in trouble?

What to look forAsk students to draw two pictures: one showing someone being punished for breaking a rule, and another showing someone repairing the harm they caused. Have them write one sentence explaining the difference.

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Activity 03

Think-Pair-Share25 min · Small Groups

Repair Plan Templates: Individual Practice

Provide templates listing harm, affected people, and repair actions. Students fill one for a personal example, then share in small groups for feedback. Display completed plans.

Explain how helping someone repair harm they caused can make friendships stronger again.

What to look forOn a slip of paper, students write one thing they learned about repairing harm. They should also list one action they can take if they accidentally hurt someone's feelings or break something.

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Activity 04

Think-Pair-Share40 min · Small Groups

Peer Mediation Stations: Rotation

Set up stations with mediation cards. Small groups rotate, practicing listening, questioning feelings, and agreeing on repairs. Rotate every 7 minutes and note key learnings.

What is the difference between punishing someone for doing something wrong and helping them fix what they did?

What to look forPresent a scenario: 'Sarah accidentally broke Tom's favorite toy during playtime. What are two ways Sarah could repair the harm she caused, and why might these actions be better than just being sent to sit alone?'

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A few notes on teaching this unit

Start with familiar conflicts from recess or group work so students connect the lesson to their daily lives. Avoid framing repair as a replacement for consequences, but instead show how thoughtful actions fulfill responsibility. Research shows children learn best when they actively construct solutions, so let their ideas guide the process rather than scripting responses for them.

Students will show they understand repair by suggesting specific actions in scenarios, creating plans to fix mistakes, and participating respectfully in discussions. Their work should reflect empathy, accountability, and a belief that relationships can heal.


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • During Role-Play: Conflict Repair Scenarios, watch for students who default to timeouts or scolding as the 'solution.' Redirect by having the group brainstorm repair actions first before deciding on consequences.

    Use the role-play script to pause and ask, 'What would help the person who was hurt feel better?' Guide students to suggest specific, kind actions like replacing the item or helping rebuild.

  • During Restorative Circles: Class Discussion, watch for students who believe saying 'sorry' is always enough. Redirect by asking the group to consider, 'What could the person do to show they really mean it?'

    After the apology, prompt the circle with, 'How can we see that Sarah feels bad beyond just her words?' Then guide students to plan observable repair steps.

  • During Peer Mediation Stations: Rotation, watch for students who say some harms cannot be fixed. Redirect by sharing a brief story about a conflict that seemed impossible to repair but improved over time.

    Stop the station and ask, 'What small step could start the repair?' Have students write or draw one action on a sticky note to post on a 'Healing Wall' as a reminder.


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