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Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 4th Year (TY)

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Making Decisions and Peer Pressure

Making Decisions and Peer Pressure is a pivotal topic in the 4th Class SPHE curriculum. As students move toward the senior end of primary school, the influence of their peer group begins to rival that of their family. This unit provides them with a framework for making independent choices and the social skills to resist pressure when a situation feels wrong.

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsMyself: Self-identity - Making decisionsMyself and others: Relating to others - Resolving conflict
15–40 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Formal Debate40 min · Whole Class

Formal Debate: The 'Dare' Dilemma

The class is presented with a scenario where a group is pressuring a friend to do something mildly risky. One side argues for 'going along to fit in', while the other argues for 'standing your ground'. Students must then find a 'middle way' or a safe exit strategy.

How do I make good decisions?
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Activity 02

Role Play20 min · Pairs

Role Play: The Broken Record Technique

In pairs, students practice resisting pressure by using the 'broken record' technique, calmly repeating a firm 'no' or 'I don't want to' without getting into an argument. They switch roles to feel both the pressure and the power of a firm refusal.

What is peer pressure and how does it affect me?
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Activity 03

Think-Pair-Share15 min · Pairs

Think-Pair-Share: Who Influences Me?

Students list three people who influence their decisions (e.g., a YouTuber, a sibling, a best friend). They share with a partner whether that influence is usually positive or negative and how they can tell the difference.

How can I say 'no' in a difficult situation?
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • Peer pressure is always someone being mean or bullying you.

    Students often think pressure is loud and aggressive. Active learning helps them recognize 'silent' or 'friendly' pressure, where they feel they have to act a certain way just to fit in, even if no one is explicitly telling them to.

  • Making a 'good' decision means everyone will be happy with you.

    Children often equate 'good' with 'popular'. Through role play, they can experience the reality that doing the right thing might sometimes make friends annoyed in the short term, but it keeps them safe and builds self-respect.


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