Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 2nd Year
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Dealing with Conflict and Bullying
Conflict is an inevitable part of life, but bullying is a deliberate and repeated abuse of power. This topic helps second-year students distinguish between the two, aligning with SPHE Learning Outcomes 3.5 and 3.6. Students explore conflict resolution techniques, such as active listening and compromise, while also tackling the serious impact of bullying and cyberbullying. A major focus is placed on the 'bystander effect' and moving students toward becoming 'upstanders' who can safely intervene.
NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsSPHE LO 3.5: Apply conflict resolution skills in various scenariosSPHE LO 3.6: Understand the impact of bullying and how to respond
Present a scenario of a cyberbullying incident. Assign students roles as the 'bully,' the 'target,' and various 'bystanders' (those who liked the post, those who saw it and said nothing). The class 'judges' the level of responsibility each person holds.
Set up stations for different resolution skills: 'I' Statements, Active Listening, Brainstorming Solutions, and The Art of the Apology. At each station, groups must solve a mini-conflict using only that specific tool.
Students brainstorm three ways to help a peer being bullied without putting themselves in physical danger. They share with a partner to evaluate which methods are most realistic for their specific school environment.
The 'banter' excuse is common in Irish schools. Using a 'Banter vs. Bullying' sorting activity helps students see that if it is repeated, intentional, and involves a power imbalance, it is bullying, regardless of the intent.
If I don't start the bullying, I'm not involved.
Students often think silence is neutral. Through simulations of the 'Bystander Effect,' students can see how silence actually empowers the bully and that doing nothing is a choice that affects the outcome.