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Social, Personal and Health Education (SPHE) · 4th Class

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Resolving Conflict and Bullying

Conflict is a natural part of life, but learning to resolve it peacefully is a skill that must be taught. In 4th Class, students learn to distinguish between a normal disagreement and bullying behavior, which is repetitive and involves an imbalance of power. This topic is vital for maintaining a safe school environment and aligns with the NCCA SPHE strands on 'Resolving conflict' and 'Bullying.'

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsSPHE: Myself and others - Relating to others (Resolving conflict)SPHE: Myself and others - My friends and other people (Bullying)
30–45 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Mock Trial45 min · Whole Class

Mock Trial: The Bystander Effect

The class examines a fictional case where a student was teased and others watched. Students take on roles (witnesses, upstanders, bystanders) to discuss the impact of each person's choice and what could have been done differently.

What is the difference between a disagreement and bullying?
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Activity 02

Inquiry Circle35 min · Small Groups

Inquiry Circle: Conflict Constellations

Groups are given a 'tangled' conflict scenario. They must map out the needs of each person involved and brainstorm three 'Win-Win' solutions where everyone gets something they need, presenting their best idea to the class.

How can I solve an argument peacefully?
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Activity 03

Role Play30 min · Small Groups

Role Play: The Upstander's Script

Students practice specific phrases they can use to support someone being treated unfairly, such as 'That's not cool' or 'Come and play with us instead.' They rotate roles to practice being both the upstander and the person being supported.

What should I do if I see someone being bullied?
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • Every argument or mean comment is 'bullying.'

    Students often overuse the word 'bullying.' Active learning helps them categorize behaviors based on frequency, intent, and power, ensuring they understand that bullying is a specific, ongoing pattern of behavior.

  • Telling a teacher is 'snitching' or 'tattling.'

    There is a strong peer culture against telling. Through discussion, teachers can help students distinguish between 'tattling' (to get someone in trouble) and 'reporting' (to get someone out of trouble or keep them safe).


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