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Making and Keeping Friends

Friendship is a central part of a child's school experience, and 2nd Class is a key time for developing more complex social skills. This topic explores what it means to be a good friend, focusing on qualities like kindness, honesty, and empathy. Students also learn about inclusion, ensuring that no one is left out of games or groups, and how to recognize and respond to the feelings of others. This aligns with the NCCA's 'My Friends and Other People' strand unit.

NCCA Curriculum SpecificationsStrand: Myself and othersStrand Unit: My friends and other people
20–30 minPairs → Whole Class3 activities

Activity 01

Role Play25 min · Small Groups

Role Play: The Inclusion Invitation

In small groups, students act out a scene where one person is standing alone at break time. They practice different ways to invite that person to join their game, focusing on using a welcoming tone and body language.

What makes someone a good friend?
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Activity 02

Gallery Walk30 min · Pairs

Gallery Walk: The Recipe for a Good Friend

Pairs draw a 'giant mixing bowl' and write 'ingredients' for a good friend (e.g., 2 cups of kindness, a pinch of listening). They walk around the room to see which ingredients are most common across the class 'recipes.'

How can we include others in our games?
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Activity 03

Simulation Game20 min · Whole Class

Simulation Game: The Empathy Glasses

The teacher gives a scenario (e.g., someone dropped their lunch). Students put on imaginary 'empathy glasses' and describe what that person might be thinking and feeling, then brainstorm one kind thing they could do to help.

How do we show kindness to our friends?
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A few notes on teaching this unit


Watch Out for These Misconceptions

  • A good friend is someone who always does what I want to do.

    Children often confuse friendship with compliance. Use role play to show that friends can have different ideas and that taking turns or compromising is what makes a friendship strong.

  • If I am friends with one person, I can't be friends with anyone else.

    Exclusive 'best friend' pairings can lead to exclusion. Collaborative group investigations help students see that they can have different friends for different activities and that 'the more the merrier' is often true.


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